Response From An Older Man, After Reading This Blog, For Why I Wasn't "Hanging Out" With Him

Him: do i not have enough money for u?
MascDudeWriter lol
Him: why laugh?
Him: it's somehting u said on your blog
Him: yes i believe so
Him: that u say that on your blog

Guess I may have given that impression from time to time...

Jake Deckard

From Jock Itch (Raging Stallion)
More from the preview set here

"Do I have to get naked, people, for you to remember my name?"

I'll admit, this blog may be a bit of a cliché - the gay kid, early 20's, twinkish but with a bit of a kinky streak, and living/working in New York. The one thing this blog is missing, in that case, is the occasional nude pic taken at my desk, or in my bed, with my laptop and Apple software. Well, I use a PC, for one thing...

By now, I've stumbled on at least two former students from my school with this type of site, and plenty of naked pics. But don't get excited, I'm not about to follow the trend...not yet at least. However, I know that this blog does happen to be missing pictures of me and seeing as I refer to my attractiveness all the time on here, I should probably be able to back it up.

So here it is, the links to my profiles on gay networking sites I use:

Manhunt: [here]
Gay.com: [here]
DList: [here]
Recon: [here]

Enjoy.

Typical Manhunt

I get an email today on Manhunt from a dude in Brooklyn. His profile is pretty vague. There's a picture of him standing outside taken from far away, and it looks like he might be decent looking, but there's a good chance that's the reason why it's his main pic - he looks just good enough, maybe better than he usually does.

Anyway, the rest of the profile is vague. His bio says:

"-----

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The When status is set to:"Not Looking." No information given for what he's into. He's 36 and versatile. There's a few possibilities for what type he is, based on the profile. It's possible that he thinks he's too good for this site, but is really just a shy guy who can't fill out his info. That's what I figured based on the subject of his email - "Hi there." But when I opened it, I realized that this wasn't the case. He wrote:

"love getting my ass raped by a young stud like you"

I wrote back, simply, "Sweet." He's a cyber guy. Either that, or he's a genuine pig on the DL. He wrote back:

"what are you up to? i'm hosting greenpoint brooklyn, trying to get a few guys together love getting gang face fucked"

This is the type of email I get five or six times a day. Whether or not he's actually going through with it or is just trying to get me to jerk off with him, I don't know. But every once in a while, I wonder why I never get an email from one of those pervs who write in their profile that they're looking for a coffee date, or dinner and a movie. Not that I'm into that kind of thing, but still...I guess it's just Manhunt.

CollegeDudes247: Lee Stephens Fucks Ian

CollegeDudes247.com

No Bitches (f.)

I'm fucking sick of dumb bitches with non-existent sex lives getting themselves off on projecting sexual tension (which may or may not exist) onto my friendships with straight men. This has happened to me a few times before, and its always pathetic, insecure girls who can't get laid and have maybe never actually touched a man in their lives - except maybe their most effeminate gay male friends.

Well, I'm un-"hag"able, women who try to assume the status of fag hag around me always figure out that it's impossible, or they get burned. And if they can't connect to the gay guy they're attracted to by being their best friend, they start fantasizing about sex between him and other men they know - often men that they're also attracted to. They try to overstep their bounds and turn normal friendships they see around them into bizarre love triangles, by injecting themselves, or their drama.

I'm over it.

Chaos Men: Dakota and Levi

ChaosMen.com

Reasons Why it Might Not Be a Good Idea for Me to Enter a Relationship

1.) I am about to turn 21. That's the wrong age to be trapped in a relationship with the same person, since I'll have access to more bars and clubs.

2.) I'm a whore, and I'll still sleep around.

3.) I'm very picky about physical type.

4.) The perfect guy - who has the perfect personality, stats, age - could appear once I'm already in a relationship.

5.) I'd probably be doing it partially for the guy's money, or take his financial status into account.

6.) I'm a college student - I'm too busy drinking, partying, hooking up with naive, impressionable boys, and doing homework, to take another person's feelings into account.

7.) I'm just too lazy.

8.) I'm into trying anything once, and committing to none of those things.

9.) I wouldn't know which of my fuck buddies to choose to settle down with.

10.) Monogamy and Marriage for gays are appropriations of failed heteronormative institutions!

Tyler Saint and Luke Spears

From Red Hanky (Hot House: Club Inferno)

François Sagat in P.O.V.

From P.O.V. (Titan Media)

Secret Internet Formulas for Determining Sexual Orientation

I have a profile on Facebook.com, and it's been up for almost three years now. Being the secretive, private type who's not really shameless at all, I've never specified which gender I'm "interested in" on the site - though I have signified that I'm interested in "random play."

However, in recent months, Facebook has begun hosting more ads than ever, and I've noticed something peculiar happening. Many of the ads that appear in my sidebar have pictures of shirtless men, and say things like, "Curious about Men for Men?" And so far, I've yet to see any ads with women in them when I log in. Facebook has somehow concluded that I probably am interested in men, and tailored their ads to me in that way. But the unsettling thing is that my profile doesn't say this anywhere, meaning that the site must have a formula for determining sexual orientation beyond what the user chooses for their "interested in" category. Whether its based on interests, or maybe even things like declining to specify orientation, Facebook is making a judgment. This is the kind of thing that's probably going to become more common as the internet becomes even more saturated with ads and sites like Facebook become more interested in selling users' information to advertisers.

On the Hunt

I got an email on Manhunt.net today from the Manhunt "Casting Director," with the subject, "Want to be a STAR??" They're looking for amateur models for their new website, OnTheHunt.com.

"OnTheHunt.com will feature actual videos of Manhunt members & their hot
hookups! This is your chance to be filmed with your sexy boyfriend or that
favorite fuck buddy.

If you don’t have either, don’t worry, we can pair you up with a hot stud in
your area. We'll even send one of our hot pornstar cameramen to your place
to film it! Members will be compensated for videos. Click on the banner
below for more information!!"

The Manhunt Casting Director will be in New York City from April 25th-28th. Members will be paid $1000 for the video...

Very tempting idea. I wonder how accurate the matches are, and who the pornstar cameraman would be...

OnTheHunt.com

Tony Mecelli and Park Wiley

From Head Hunters, Inc. (Hot House)
backroom.hothouse.com

Contempt

hottieboi4u: fucking bill
hottieboi4u: fucking bill
MascDudeWriter: fucking bill
hottieboi4u: fucking fucking fucker fucking bill
hottieboi4u : i want that money
hottieboi4u: ...we should mug him

A friend and I expressing our feelings for a man we were both supposed to be fucking for money a year ago, but who flaked out.

Victor Banda (with Damien Crosse)

VictorBanda.blogspot.com

5 Deep

Choosing

After a few years of fucking around, never settling down with anyone, gaining friends but never "boyfriends," and being satisfied with this - is it inevitable that a man will stumble into someone who will trick them into being in a relationship? Is that where it all ends?

Is it selfish to see entering a relationship as a way of giving up my freedom and ability to express myself? Or just pathological? Maybe egotistical is the right word, for feeling that the person has more to gain than I for being in a relationship with me.

I've come to be in a situation where a man who I assumed was just going to be a fuck buddy or a friend seems to be trying to develop a real relationship, and the problem is this: if I had to be in a relationship with someone, I'd rather it be with another man I've known for much longer and who's become a good friend, or, I'd rather it be with someone younger (mid-20's) who I haven't met yet and fulfills all of my physical requirements as well as being intellectual compatible (this person is probably the reason I'm not already in a relationship with the friend).

The problem is what to do now. It usually satisfies some twisted, chaos-worshiping part of me to treat these situations as if they're complex - as if all emotions and motives must be carefully weighed against each other and balanced. But maybe, for once, I should take the words of a certain infamous conservative to heart. "...Perhaps there is a simple answer--not an easy answer--but simple." I should step back, and take a look at what these two men really mean to me, make a decision, and stand by it. It's a simple answer after all...

Quentin Elias

Quentin Elias Myspace

Fox News Transphobia

This clip from Fox News' "Red Eye" program, on the subject of pregnant trans-male Thomas Beatie's Oprah appearance speaks for itself.

Damien Crosse and RJ Danvers

From Hotter Than Hell (Raging Stallion)
more pics at: DamienCrosse.blogspot.com

Anathema

I officially condemn DList.com (one of the more obnoxious gay networking sites...), for refusing to upload all of my best pictures...they have a size limit of 250 KB, and most of my pics are over 1 MB.

For shame...

DList.com

College Sex Parties and Gay Porn Scams

Being an attractive 20 year old college student living in the New York City area, I recently received an invitation on Manhunt.net to a "College W/S Kegger" at a certain video company's "Frat House" in Brooklyn this weekend...

Now, to clarify, this isn't my scene. But anytime I get one of these "invitations," I do some investigating. I answered the message back with my yahoo email address, and they sent me two long emails explaining the event. According to the emails, guests are "pre-screened" through Manhunt and invited based on how they look - if they look like hot, young college students, I guess. The group says they last had a party in February and,

"we had over 80 HOT college guys come to it and by everyone's account it was probably the hottest party anyone had ever attended.... everyone at our parties is early 20's to under 30ish and pre-screened / in shape / hot...

**Discretionary Door Policy... This event is intended for inshape guys between 18 and 30 years old or look it. We DO screen everyone at the door....you must meet that criteria and/or match the pictures that you sent us, or you will NOT be allowed in ! !"

Now, there's a few things in these emails that sound pretty shady (apart from the piss sex party aspect of it...). To get in, you pay a $25 fee ($20 if you show college ID), and the drinks are all free.

"Your donation includes EVERYTHING : Open Bar all night (beer, special shots, gatorade, water) / Clothes Check / Showers & towels / snacks / live piss shows - games / condoms & lube.... EVERYTHING! )...drug free event (420 friendly)."

Here's the catch. They mention that the party may be a lead into their video production.

"When you come to our large party, let us know if you want to attend smaller parties we have every couple weeks with about 10-12 guys at a private apt in Manhattan if you're interested in them let us know.... Also if you want to be a model or do a porn vid for our website let us know... our website is [omitted]...NOTE: There are NEVER any videos or pictures taken at our parties!"

So basically, they invite college kids to their party, get them drunk, stoned, and then ask them if they wanna make some videos...Reassuringly, one of the faq questions they've planted is,

"How come i see pics and videos from your parties on the GBU [Oops, I left the site in...] website ... Are there hidden CAMERA's at your parties ??"

To which they respond:

"um, do you REALIZE how illegal that would be to video tape anyone without their knowledge? No, WE NEVER allow ANY camera's to operate during the parties... SO the pictures on our web site are from the separate video shoots where the models sign releases ... but they are not actually during the party."

Those pics were taken at a staged party...But it gets better. The email takes some time to address safe sex concerns. An faq question asks about health risks and if HIV can be contracted through watersports. As far as it being safe, they say:

"Remember: Urine is sterile... and it considered an antiseptic in many cultures.. Drinking piss (Urine therapy or "UT") is also a very accepted healthy practice in many eastern cultures. Even Gandhi drank piss !"

Why they think they can drag Gandhi into an invitation to a sex party, I don't know...Of course, they fail to point out that watersports can put a person at risk for contracting Hepatitis. They settle the HIV question easily:

"The good news is... (drum roll please).. Piss IS safe for HIV/AIDS ! WooHOO!!"

Thank god...Of course they do admit that there may be some risks to all of this - that certain illegal drugs can be passed through urine.

"The Bad news is.... there are SOME risks with having Piss inside you... the BIGGEST risk is getting high on whatever drugs the other person is taking.. ... the possibitly [sic] of accidentatly [sic] getting high ... maybe even over dosing if you drink too much of it... is a real risk... this is why we don't allow drugs like "Chrystal [sic] Meth" or GHB at our parties."

Very reassuring...Not to judge, but there are probably enough twinks out there who are excited by the email, probably jerking off to it a few times, to keep the "Frat House" in business for a few more years. This is one sex party I won't be showing up to. But I guess it's flattering to have passed their screening on Manhunt.

[This is where I would put a link, but I don't feel like giving them the hits.]

Francesco D'Macho and Orlando Toro

I'm not always a big fan of Francesco D'Macho, but this series doesn't look too bad. These camera angles do him justice.



FrancescoDMacho.com

Ultra Nate "Automatic"

I know this has been around for a while now, but I'm putting it up for anyone who missed it. Plus, this blog probably needed something to make it more gay. The first guy is def more my type.

Rodrigo De Leon

See Vanished by Mustang.

Arpad Miklos

ArpadMiklos.net

All-American

Obama Refuses to Talk with Gay Media

Huffington Post posted this article from the Philadelphia Gay News on Barack Obama's slim record of communicating with the gay press. An accompanying editorial in the newspaper writes:

"At this point in the Democratic presidential campaign, we're able to view the candidates by their actions. And we have found that Sen. Barack Obama would rather talk at the LGBT community than with them...

The fact is that Obama has spoken with the gay press only twice, and one of those interviews...was in 2004, before he became a U.S. senator. The other limited interview occurred after controversy erupted when his campaign added an anti-gay minister to his tour of the South. It has now been 1,522 days since Obama has been accessible to our community."

If Obama would be willing to do an interview for Masc Dude Writer, I'd be happy to host him...

Huffington Post: Gay Paper: Obama Refuses to Talk to Gay Media

McCain, Wrestling with Pigs

John McCain on Howard Dean:

"You don’t want to get into a wrestling match with a pig. You both get dirty, and the pig likes it.”

This is the second time McCain has used this analogy, hmm....

The Swamp: McCain on Dean "Wrestling w/Pig."

Posing

Stuff White People Like: #88 Having Gay Friends

If anyone hasn't seen the blog "Stuff White People Like" yet, here's an opportunity to check it out. Here's an excerpt from #88: Having Gay Friends:

"When a straight person goes to a gay night club, they are reminded of how progressive and tolerant they are. If they are hit on by a member of the same sex, it provides them with a valuable story that they can use to prove to their other friends that they are more progressive and tolerant. “This guy/girl hit on me, I said I was ’straight but not narrow,’ and it was totally chill. Oh, you went to an Irish bar this weekend? That’s cool, I guess"...

...Gay friends are an essential part of a white person’s all-star diversity roster. But they are always on the lookout for the ultimate friend; a gay minority.

It is generally accepted that a gay black friend with a child is considered a once in a lifetime opportunity - like a quarterback who can pass, run, kick, and play linebacker. White people will crawl over each other for the opportunity to claim this person as a friend and add them to their roster of diversity."

Stuff White People Like: #88 Having Gay Friends

What I Missed Out On

Here's what I didn't get to see by not going to Saturday's Black Party in New York, from an article titled "My First Black Party" from Gawker:

"With our clothes stowed away, we head upstairs and immediately run into our first "sex show." There is a crowd of people standing around a gated-off area, and inside, two fit men tied up on a pool table. One is on his back and receiving a hand job, while the other is sitting up on his knees. Behind him, a large muscular man is greasing up the blunt end of a pool cue. The cue was inserted into the ass of one of the bound men, while the other was fitted with a condom. After being sodomized by the pool cue, the guy is guided down, ass first, onto the condom-clad dick of the other. They started fucking and we decided to walk around; it was like watching porn but we couldn't fast forward through the boring parts...

...We head upstairs, where things are supposed to be even more interesting. There is another sex show starting up here on a large, elevated, square stage. I recognize the first performer as famous French narcissist François Sagat (NSFW). He is shirtless and looking ripped, although much shorter than I'd imagined. He is joined by a very large, muscular black man. They wrestle around for a few minutes before the black guy opens his pants, removes his penis and starts pissing on François. First on his chest, then in his mouth, and then he turns the water gun upwards and pisses in his own mouth. This honestly doesn't do it for me, and yet I can't stop watching. They both stand up and the crowd applauds. François jumps off the stage to exit, and I quickly duck out of his way for fear of getting bumped into by this urine-soaked frenchman."

A fuck bud of mine told me he's buying my ticket next year.

Gawker: "My First Black Party"