So I was hanging out with a fuck bud last night who's normally pretty vanilla with stuff we do but hints a lot of the time that he likes to see me in leather, and has called me Sir a few times...jokingly, sort of.
While we're hanging out this time, he started bringing up watersports for some reason. I had recommended RocketTube.com to him, and he mentioned watching videos of twinks getting pissed on - that put up the first red flag, seeing as he's older than me and I fit into the twink age group. Then later on, after we had been fooling around, it somehow came up again, and he mentioned that he'd done it a few times but he wasn't sure if it turned him on...
At this point it seemed pretty clear that he was hoping I would let him do it. But instead, I mentioned that I'd been asked to do it in the past - as the top - but hadn't yet. I put it pretty bluntly that I would only do it as a top, and he got quiet and didn't bring it up again.
Now I'm wondering if it might have been rude of me to shoot him down like that, but I think it's better that I didn't let him get his hopes up.
11 hours ago
3 comments:
I do nto think it was rude. You stated your opion on this subject. why would that be rude?
Ray
It's always smart to be clear about which way the stream flows.
What mac said...
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