Clarification of My Stance on Relationships

People have given me some interesting responses to my earlier post about my ideal boyfriend. One reader, whose sn on aim appears to be "uconndanny," seemed really insulted by what I said, and wrote:

ok.. you are so full of yourself... you're a mess with an oversize ego and the image of your "ideal man" is nonexistent... I am glad you are creative writer major, since this is it... creative writing

On one hand, I'm sort of flattered because that's the kind of anger and emotion I typically only see in a comment on Erik Rhodes' blog. Also, the fact that he knows I study writing means that he must either have read somewhat deeply into this blog, be a regular reader, or otherwise know me in person... But I wanna make it clear that I wasn't trying to say I believe I'm entitled to a man like that, just that if I was considering entering a relationship those were attributes that might sway me. I'm actually not actively looking for a boyfriend right now and I'm pretty satisfied with my current relationship status. Here's a conversation I just had with a friend that I think clarifies my position:

Ralph69: "He should also be completely in love with me, probably just a degree more than I am with him. Military service is optional."
Ralph69: is this a help wanted ad?
Ralph69: he he
Mascdudewriter: the post is also kind of a joke
Ralph69: every joke has an element of truth
Mascdudewriter: of course
Mascdudewriter: but its a joke because obviously u cant order a relationship like that
Ralph69: but you want to....
Mascdudewriter: well, no, im happy not being in a relationship
Mascdudewriter: is the point
Mascdudewriter: i dont feel bad for myself by thinking im not able to have that

Do I have anything against the idea of being in a relationship? No.

Am I actively looking for a boyfriend? No.

I'm sure this issue will continue to come up.